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Ace That First Date
Ace That First Date

First dates are the WORST…but EVERY relationship begins with one, yes?

Here are some ways to “ace” your first date from Match.com:

The look of love

The first impression is all about sight. So skip the grunge and go for khakis or at least a decent pair of jeans without holes. Even if you’ve opted for the casual movie date, it’s always better to overdress than underestimate. If your shirt is stained, toss it aside. You may think it blends, but unless it’s covered, it’s impossible to miss. Got a huge crease from collar to waist? Take a moment to heat up the iron. Before exiting the car, check the teeth and hair, and make certain you’ve removed all tags from any new articles.

 

Be especially scent-sitive

Women, listen up: Many scientists say that men have a keener sense of smell. So hold back when spraying the scent—because knocking him out from five feet away is generally not a good way to start a date. Men, please don’t pick this night to try a new antiperspirant. And, never ever kick off the shoes in an effort to relax—even a slight whiff of feet will undermine your romancing efforts.

 

Watch your mouth

At all costs, resist sharing bad jokes, even during those awkward silent moments. Save the x-rated stuff for the boys, and the male bashing for the gals. Political debate is another no-no for most first dates, as are conversations about sensitive current events. You’ve got no clue where your companion stands on these issues, and the last thing you need on a first date is anargument. Be careful how you address the server or how loudly you laugh at the bartender—remember your date is listening, too.

 

 

 

Touchy-feely

There is nothing as powerful as human contact to let someone know you’re interested. So if you’ve made it this far and your first three senses are right on target, use this most potent weapon wisely. But first, pay careful attention to the parts of your body that are likely to make contact: hair, lips and hands. Never grope your date (of course!). Instead use subtle cues — a gentle nudge, casual touch of the shoulder or elbow, quick grasp of the hand — to hint at your interest.

 

Do you have good taste?

At the end of this first date, you’ll be glad you went garlic-free. In fact, it’s probably best to avoid spices entirely. If you followed your meal with coffee and/or drinks, be sure you’ve got your breath mints on hand. When you move in close for that goodnight kiss, you want your date to think about how hot and spicy YOU are, not the Mexican entrée you enjoyed earlier.

Now go out there and get him (or her)!

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