Love at first sight does exist…but it IS rare.

The Huffington Post experts share some dating “red flags” to watch out for:

They badmouth their ex  If that’s how they talk about them, it’s probably how they’ll talk about you sooner or later.

They only talk about themselves  They might just be nervous but if it’s an ongoing thing, they probably have a big ego.

They’re rude to the staff.  Again, they could just be nervous and want to impress you by making sure everything goes well.  More likely, they’re just a jerk!

They drink too much  A few drinks to loosen up may be OK…but if they get fall-down DRUNK on your first date…take a pass on Date #2.

They admit they’ve “ghosted” on people before  Guess what will happen to you?

They seem bored  If they seem bored by you, don’t waste any more time on them.  If you’re bored, same!